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Love Your Breasts

18 Feb

BreastsBreasts are amazing fun! They can be boldly shown off in a sexy low cut top, subtly poke through a soft silk shirt, or simply be fabulous all on their own when you are naked.

Did you know that regardless of bra size, women all have the same amount of nerve endings in their breasts? This means that big or small, you are able to feel the same amount of pleasure. Also, the entire breast is sensitive, not just the nipple. Some women report extra sensitivity around the upper part of the areola.

Did you know that your breasts can grow, and frequently do? Some of you may have experienced swelling during the time around you period. The increase in size is due to the hormonal changes in your body. Your breasts can also grow during arousal. They contain erectile tissue that swell when engorged with blood. These changes are not permanent, but are interesting to note.

Try some of these tips to make your breasts feel loved and get them a piece of the action.

Tease Them

Have a partner use their fingers to apply feather light touches to your skin. The soft touches will be detected by the many nerve endings in the breast tissue and will produce pleasure inducing chills. Have your partner alternate hot and cool breaths blown upon them. See if you can detect the subtleties.

Use a Prop

Try rubbing and ice cube around the areola and nipple of the breast. The cold sensation will be a new experience from an ordinarily warm touch of the hand. Try using a feather, pearls, or anything else that has a unique texture to stimulate them. Feeling a bit kinky? Try using some nipple clamps.

Have a Breastgasm

Some women are actually able to orgasm through breast stimulation alone. Touching, kissing, licking, and sucking the breast can release the pleasure hormone oxytocin. The hormone is often associated with bonding and uterine contractions. Some breastfeeding moms have even experienced an orgasm during a feeding.

Inter-mammary Sex

You may know this activity as ‘titty fucking.’ This is done by pressing the breasts together and having your partner rub their penis in the cleft between your breasts. Small chested women may find this a bit difficult to manage, but an easy variation is to use one breast to stimulate your partner’s penis.

Make Them The Star During Sex

Mounting your partner while they are in an upright position is a great way to make your breasts the center of attention. Your breasts will be at eye level, and better yet, mouth level. Your partner is free to stimulate them with their hands or mouth while you ride them. Spoon-sex is another great position for extra breast attention. While laying on your side, your partner is free to rub, pinch, or massage your breasts. In the missionary position, you have full range of motion with both hands to stimulate your own breasts while putting on a show for your partner.

Don’t forget to show the girls some love the next time you get down. There are countless ways to play with breasts, so relish in all of the new ways you discover! Happy sexing, and as always, everything is OK here.

Talk Dirty To Me: The Art Of Auditory Seduction

1 Jul

DirtyTalkI really like the saying ‘use your words!’ especially when it comes to sex. Talking dirty, sexy, naughty, nasty, or whatever you want to call it, can be an exciting way to bring your sex play to the next level. You can apply dirty talk before or during your erotic encounter. A few sexy lines whispered to your partner of things to come while you’re out and about will definitely have them racing to get you home. And a few naughty phrases moaned during the act can really make things hot. Hearing positive feedback from your partner can also be a great confidence builder, and the great thing about talking dirty is that there is no wrong way to do it!

It you’re starting from nothing, dip your toes into the dirty talk pool with some simple moans and groans. Give a sigh or have a catch in your breath. Starting to become vocal in the act will make you more comfortable when it comes time to say it with words.

If you’re feeling shy or not sure what to say, just stick to basic phrases. Keep it simple sexy.

“You’re so sexy”

“I love it when you _____ my _____”

“Lick me here”

“That feels so good”

“Touch me in my favorite spot”

“I’m going to _____ your_____”

These simple phrases and more sound super erotic when said into your partner’s ear. Just give a verbal play by play of what is happening. Tell your partner what you’re about to do to them. That will also help keep you present, and your mind on task. Everyone loves compliments, especially in the bedroom!

If you’re looking to up the ante and get down to business, try out these lines.

“Let’s see how many times I can make you come”

“You’re so wet and taste delicious”

“I love the feeling of you in my mouth”

“I’m coming”

“Come on my face”

“You can put in anywhere”

As your confidence builds, you can work in more naughty phrases and words into your repertoire. If you and your partner are comfortable, try some vulgarity! Get nasty with it. Also realize that what goes on in the bedroom does not necessarily translate into real life. For example, your partner might like it when you call them a whore in while in the act, but they may not like being called a whore in public. Talking dirty is something for fun and should never be used maliciously against your partner.

Do you feel like you’re ready to give dirty talking a try? Just remember to be comfortable and yourself. Start off simply by saying what is happening or on your mind, then you can build the heat from there. Don’t worry if you misspeak or think you say the wrong thing, just laugh it off. Sex is supposed to be fun! And remember, when it comes to talking dirty in the bedroom, everything is OK here.

So You Want To Shave Your Pubic Hair?

19 Jun

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I often get questions like ‘Should I shave my pubes off?’ or ‘Is bald better?’ And the answer is simple, whatever is right for you! For those of you who want to keep it natural, keep it going, or rather, growing. But, if shaving is the choice for you, don’t just go willy-nilly with sharp objects around such a sensitive region. So whether you’re a shaving novice or an old pro, please consider the following information.

Pre-Trim

If you’re starting from full growth, take the time beforehand to cut your pubic hair short with scissors. This will help reduce the chance of you clogging a razor with excess hair. Remember, this is a pre-trim, you don’t need to get everything and be wary of what is hair and what is skin.

Lube It Up

Never EVER shave without some form of lubrication. At bare minimum use water, but I highly recommend shaving cream. Look for one that is specially formulated for sensitive areas or for your pubic region.

Go With The Flow

Shave with the growth of your hair, especially if this is your first time shaving. If your skin isn’t used to being shaved, going against the grain can cause ingrown hairs. Take your time, this isn’t a race. Nothing is worse than hurrying through a shave and getting a nick on your sensitive parts. Stretch the skin of difficult or hard to reach areas. A mirror can make a great shaving partner.

Exfoliation

After you’re done shaving, lightly exfoliate the area. This will help remove any dead skin cells or anything else that may block your pores and cause ingrown hairs. Ladies, be sure to not get any soap inside of your vagina. Rinse well and then pat dry. You can choose to apply a light moisturizer at this point. I recommend one that is dye and fragrance free.

Fast Tips

  • Pre-trim
  • Use a sharp razor
  • Always use lubrication
  • Take your time
  • Don’t over shave
  • Go with the grain
  • Use a mirror
  • No soap in the vagina
  • Rinse well
  • Moisturize

So whether shaving is an exciting change or part of your personal routine, be safe! And remember, when it comes to shaving and sex, everything is OK here.